The same old question

Spank or no spank? Yup, this probably is every parent’s question disciplining their child.

Me? I do spank them but with conditions. There are rules that I believe would really affect the result of spanking. First and the most important one is never, ever spank a child when you are angry. In other words, never discipline your child when you are mad.

I will go get some fresh air before I start scolding them whenever possible. I’ll also try to look at things from their perspective on why they do that before I judge them and before I start blaming them. I have had really bad experience before after I scolded them when I was mad at them. The obvious thing was that they mimic what and how I said angry words to other kids, or they themselves. They even use it back on me! I had to reassure them that mommy still loves them, mommy don’t simply spank them and don’t simply scold them over nothing. So, never ever spank or discipline your child when you are angry.

When I was chasing after them on doing things, I think of them as my weight loss pills *LOL*. Yes, true enough, they do help me keeping in shape. They had me getting up to go where they wanted, they had me picking up on toys that they left on the floors, etc. Furthermore, they are kids that always with good intention no matter how sillyd they might seems, but they are really kind in heart even when I told him that “Well, you can’t simply water the plant at any time of the day. You might just kill them.” *LOL*